How
to make good friends & Keep it forever?

Making friends is not always an
easy affair, especially But, we can make friends, if we follow certain norms
and tips, as shown below.

16 tips to make friendship and
keep it forever:

• Be optimistic. If some body
  insults you, just ignore him and, don’t be afraid to express your
  opinions, as he has no idea what he is talking about. A positive out look
  will make people want to be more around you.

• Smile as much as you can. It
  is a sign that you are interested in what they are saying.

• Listen more than you talk and
  try to take what the person says and run with it. Add your own thoughts
  also occasionally, but don’t hijack the conversation.

• Say "hello” to those who
  are reserved and talk less. Share something about yourself, such as why
  are you there? Avoid talking about weather at that time.

• Don’t expect perfection out of
  anyone (especially yourself). For example, if you forget your own name
  while introducing yourself, don’t get panicky, but just make fun of the
  situation.

• Share interesting ideas. Your
  thoughts can open up many doors that can lead to friendship.

• Crack a joke. Having a sense
  of humor is important, but don’t get yourself too carried away, as there
  are some things you have to be serious about.

• Start by doing little things,
  if you are very reserved. For example, every time you go to work, say
  hello to one person and have a one-on-one conversation with them.

• Everybody likes some attention
  (even the shy ones). Pay attention to people and they will repay you warmly.

• Don’t be selfish. Many think
  if they are generous, their friends would take advantage of them. This is
  an absurd paradox.

• Just be yourself: Not
  everybody likes a bubbly, funny personality. Don’t try to say something
  just for the purpose of looking smart. Lot of people prefers to have
  friendship with sincere persons.

• Love yourself. It is difficult
  to like others, when you do not appreciate yourself for you are.

• If you make an appointment
  with nybody, be on time. People like to make friendship with such type of
  persons very much.

• Be nice to others. Always give
  compliments. Also crack a joke once in a while. People will laugh and find
  you fun and funny to be with.

• Be honest. Lying makes people
  not want to be your friends any more.

• Surround yourself with people
  you want to be like and also people who share your interests. Be
  passionate about what you believe in. Never change your opinions and ideas
  often. People like to show keen interest with such type of honest and
  sincere people.

The golden word
is: “Friendship is fragile and handles it with care”.